naiinis ako...

naiinis ako...

gumising ng maaga...

m-stuck s traffic jam...

s office...

kay bossing...

s bus stop pg uwian n...

naiinis ako...

parang gus2 ko umuwi ng PILIPINAS...

aahhh kelan kaya ako uuwi...

love ko wife ko...

Last Saturday evening, dumating ako s bus stop na madami na namang tao, nghi2ntay ng bus, pahirapan n nman s pg-uwi..nd alam anu oras ddating ang bus byaheng dubai-sharjah. May mga KABAYAN ako nkausap at inip n rin at gutom,gus2ng - gus2 n makauwi,isipin p n traffic jam n ung time n 6pm pauwing sharjah.

Then, ung isa guy, i forgot his name,sb nya “gus2 nyo taxi n lng tau?sharing?dun ako mg-aabang,hintay nyo ako…”

kami 2 babae ng-agree n kaysa abutin ng syam-syam s pghi2ntay ng bus pero ung isa babae ng-aalangan sumama kc traffic n nga - bka abutin ng malaki ang metro.

in just minutes, nkkuha ng taxi ung guy.. takbo kami kc madami rin nghi2ntay ng taxi.ung isa babae nd nga sumama.pero ,me isang guy n lumapit at nkiusap n mkksabay…”sakay k n KABAYAN,jan k n s harap maupo” sb nmin.

nmukhaan ko c KABAYAN, sb ko “kuya,kilala kita..nksabay n kita dati,sabado din un…”

“talaga?nd ko matandaan ata…” sagot nya

“bday ng misis mo nung time n un” phabol ko

tinignan nya ako s likod ng taxi…

“aahhh oo nksabay nga kita..kaw ung look alike ni…”

pinutol ko at inunahan ko cya…

“c chix ng PBB?un ung sb nung isa kasabay ntin dati pero i doubt if kamukha ko nga c chix” sb ko…

“hindi mas mganda k kay chix…c KYLA ang kmukha mo…pg-uwi ko nga s bahay sb ko s wife ko - mommy,may nksbay ako girl ngaun kamukha n KYLA - ang ganda mommy”

awts…mganda daw ako hehehe kahit san ako mkpunta basta kilala c KYLA ssbhin kmukha ko or kptid ko daw…

well,nd ang kgandahan ko n cnb nya ang isu2lat ko…hehehe

as the taxi goes on…c kuya Jun (his name) ng-start n uli cya mgkwento about his family, his profession s pinas at nging profession d2 s UAE…kami 3 s likod ng taxi tanung2 and palitan ng kuro2…

Kuya Jun : Sundalo ako s Pinas, Accountant d2 s Dubai…pero mind you guys, nd ako accountant pero nung interview ko sb ko I KNOW ACCOUNTING…etc,,,etc…etc p about his work

Guy 2 : Happy k b nman n nd2 k s UAE at iniwan mo ang pgging sundalo? Anung kaibahan?

Kuya Jun : BEING WITH MY WIFE…it was a big sacrifice for me…it was like, pnapili ako between my son and my wife…i just told myself ung anak ko kahit 10years nd ko makita anak ko p rin cya…ung asawa ko tsk..tsk..i love my wife…importante ung mgkasama kami palagi.

Kuya Jun : Yesterday i called my son…sb nya daddy,turuan mo ako mgbasa..daddy tanungin mo ako laws of inertia, daddy tanungin mo ako components of fire…tnanung ko cya kung naintndhan nya b un sb nya nd daw…turo daw un ng tito nya…malungkot n ala kami duon ng mommy nya n mgtu2ro s knya…pero sb ko konting panahon lng kami d2…

sb ko : bakit nd nyo kunin ang anak nyo d2?

kuya Jun : ayaw nmin…ayaw ko lumaki cya d2 s loob lng room…s province, marranasan nya ang tumakbo, umakyat ng puno, preskong hangin…

me dagdag p cya…

Kuya Jun : Mtgal din bago ako nkpg-work d2…hanggang s feeling desperate nko me offer skin s Fujairah…malaking dhs offer salary..cnb ko s wife ko…sb nya : daddy,kya nga kita pnpunta d2 para mgksama tau kung pu2nta k dun parang nasa pinas k din…nd ko tinanggap…IM HERE TO BE WITH MY WIFE…

s time natin ngaun parang bihira tau mkka-encounter ng lalaking very vocal s pgssbing love nila wife nila…kung mppkinggan nyo mgkwento c kuya june, mto-touched ka at ssbhin npkswerte ng WIFE nya to have HIM…nd ko lam kelan ko uli cya mkksabay….hail to you kuya jun, dakila ang yong pgmamahal…

wedding bells

posted this blog on my multiply last july 16

uuhhmmm…been thinking about my wedding preparations whew dunno where to start…we have 10 months to prepare everything and the count starts now…

‘got an idea from honey vhonn’s bestfriend mommy avic which she emailed last year p pero i kept for reference. who knows she might be our wedding coordinator hehehe…

Date: Tue, 4 Jul 2006 02:45:30 +0100 (BST)
From: ”Avic”
Subject: Re: hi mommy avic
To: “lerma jane del rosario”

by the way, i have some inputs for your wedding, kung okay lang. coz you are a sweet girl, i am thinking if we have the butterfly set-up. gusto ko bawat scene sa wedding mo, my certain song, for example, habang nagma-march ka, it, should not be the usual wedding song, it may be your theme song or any song that states your promises. gusto mo ba talagang church wedding? kasi okay din yung garden… kasi naisip ko, kung kunwari, nai-announce na ang you may kiss the bride, tutugtugin ang kiss me, sbay yung entourage mo, pakakawalan ang mga butterflies na hawak nila. maganda din sana kung meron tayong LCD, magagawan ko ng presentation para habang kumakain ang mga tao, pwede nilang makita yung mga pictures nyo ni von… ang sweet di ba?! kinikilig na ko… naku ha?! baka maiyak ako nyan san’yo!!!


uuhhhmmm sounds romantic… i need more ideas…


***


*** after ng ilang months, we’re still on the planning stage…parang we’ll run out of time…as in ala p naumpisahan…though nkausap ko n c mareng cecille at mareng avic n tutulungan nila kami n honey for d preparation still andun p rin ung thought panu b umpisahan lahat hehehe ang gulo ko…


in our 5year relationship, ilang beses n kami ng-plan ng wedding…alam nmin kami n mgkksama for d rest of our lives…cguro isang factor why we keep on the planning stage is because we’re living together n for more than a year now…parang what’s on our mind eh “we’re happy naman at saka ddating ung time s church din kami derecho” pero minsan naiisip ko we need to get our parents blessing as well as the church’s.


m happy with vhonn at fulfilled and content with what we are sharing…i fully trust him and lam ko mahal nya ako…


by the way, we’re set to get married here in d desert…ung isa document khapon lng nmin nreceived from my brother…


what we have now… (d most important)

* authenticated singleness

* authenticated parent’s consent


uuhhmmm need n lng isa s amin ang mg-sacrifice um-absent s work para pumunta s consulate for the application…isa cguro s hindrance s balak n kasal n ito ay ang aming WORK…both of us are busy s work…

text messaging

posted on wordpress dated october 15, 2007


Yesterday, i woke up early to prepare honey’s breakfast and baon n rin…oh d ba good wife n d future ako

I asked him to get up n kc almost 4:30am n nun…he usually alarm his phone by 4:00am but get up by 30 minutes after…click lng nya snooze pg tumunog (parehas kami) sarap kc mtulog - hirap bumangon..kasarapan ng tulog ung ganun time…

n-prepare ko n lahat - damit at baon nya…so ako nman ang ggayak..wwhhuuaahh nd ko p rin lubos maisip s dubai n uli ako ppasok…ang layo, i mean hirap bumiyahe.hirap sumakay lalo n ala p rin ako nkkausap n car lift…

by 5:20am ng-paalam n c honey - goodbye kiss p muna…naupo muna ako saglit at hinawakan ko ang cellphone ko…ngbrowse ako ng messages ko ke honey nung nasa pinas p kami…(nk-save p rin mga messages ko s knya hehehe sweet!) nkita ko itong message n ito sabay forward s knya:

“f one day u hear nothing from me, f u search 4 me and found m not der, f u call my name and i never appear, just think of this reason - M GONE TO BE UR ANGEL”

message sent…

after 2seconds…ng-ring ang mobile ko…c honey 2mtwg…

honey: anu ung message mo?

ako: bakit?

honey: ayaw ko nung message mo…binura ko…

ako: sweet nga eh…d b ako angel mo?

honey: ayaw ko maging angel kita f mawawala k naman…gus2 ko s tabi lng kita…etc..etc…etc…

pgktapos nmin mg-usap…ngmuni-muni ako…binasa ko uli ung message ko s sent items…np-hay n lng ako…at ngforward uli ako ng message s knya…

“i wish i cud collect d perfect words,put dem in ur hands and close ur finger around dem so u wud know how i truly thankful for having u as part of my life”

message sent…pero nd n tumwg or ngreply c honey…

if we...

If we fall in love
because someone makes us laugh,
what happens when we no longer find them funny?




If we fall in love
because someone is beautiful,
what happens when that beauty fades?


If we fall in love
because someone can provide for us,
what happens when they lose their wealth?


LOVE defies all reasons.



When you truly love someone,



YOU DON’T NEED REASONS…

the hard lessons on love and men

got this from my yahoo groups…

Remember when Meredith Grey uttered the words, “Pick Me, Choose me, Love Me”?. Indeed, she still have to learn lessons about love and men. Here are some thoughts.

Lessons Meredith Grey must learn (GREY’S ANATOMY)

The Hard Lessons on Love and Men…


1. A man won’t let go if he really loves you.

Do not hold on to someone who has let go of you. He does not love you and does not value having you. Believe me, he will not let go if he really loves you. There is another reason he is not willing to tell.2. Do not look for reasons why he ended the relationship.

There is only one reason why he ended your relationship. He just does not love you. Do not waste your time thinking of reasons or what you should have done. Move on and be open to a man who will truly love you.

3. Do not get hung up on your past.

Do not nag or distrust your current boyfriend just because your ex hurt you. Do not treat him or the relationship the same way. Do not compare. He will not react the same way as your ex. Do not be worried that your simple mistakes will cause him to look for another girl. What happened with your ex was not your fault. It was not because you didn’t guard him enough or you didn’t make him happy enough.

4. Do not look into images.

How many times have you met a girl who didn’t have the best image in school or at the office, but you get to know the girl and found out she was actually extremely nice? Do not rely on images. Oftentimes, it is far from reality. Do not fear men just because your “supposedly” perfect ex-boyfriend mistreated you.

5. Always have your own set of rules.

Set your limits on how far you’d go for a guy. It’s perfectly ok to give and do everything as long as it’s worth it. And it’s worth it if the guy is treating you right.

6. Do not be scared to lose him.

Don’t be scared that he’ll break up with you. Once you are afraid of losing him, you easily can be taken advantage. Be strong and if something is unacceptable, do not accept it and speak up.

7. Avoid calling your guy.

It’s a guy thing. The relationship will definitely be better if it’s the guy who’s calling, not the girl. He will get tired of you if you keep on calling. He will lose interest and challenge. More so, he will get annoyed. But it’s a girl thing also that your fingers get too itchy until you dial his number. But avoid as much as possible. Call only if really needed (like checking if your suspicions are reasonable).

8. There is a guy who will value you.

There is a guy out there who can make you feel valued, appreciated, and loved. And I mean, not just during your first few weeks together. So don’t lose hope. Don’t settle for a lesbian if you are not attracted to women. There is a man out there who can love you like a girl can. Also, do not believe him when he says it’s just the way he really is. He’s not the sweet or expressive-type. Remember during your first few weeks together? Where has that sweet guy gone? He simply is not that into you anymore.

9. Always be the only one, no matter what.

Do not ever fall for a guy who has another girl, be it his wife, girlfriend, or any girl that he says he just can’t get rid of for whatever reason. If you truly believe that he loves you and for some reason, he can’t leave or let go of another girl, then you are no different from any ordinary mistress.

10. He must respect you.

No matter how long the relationship has been, he should always show respect towards you.

11. If he fooled you, end it.

Philandering once is enough. You can never trust nor respect the person again.

12. Never start a relationship the wrong way.

Do not steal another girl’s man, for whatever reason. Nor should you enter a relationship for the wrong reasons (loneliness, on the rebound, getting back at your ex, man-dependency, etc.) it is bound not to last. You will only end up wasting more years of your life.

13. Do not force yourself into a relationship.

Do not get into a relationship just because your friends are getting impatient with your dating escapades and the one hasn’t come yet. Do not choose who to say yes to based on superficial things like money, looks, cars, etc.. If you are even thinking of these things, you have not fallen in love yet.

14. Do not settle.

If you are not happy anymore with your relationship, break up instantly. He will not stay with you forever no matter how upright he might seem to be. Eventually, he will also want love and happiness in his life.

15. A relationship has to have love.

Love is the only thing that will push you to give your efforts into making the relationship work. And believe me keeping a relationship requires genuine efforts of both parties.

16. Don’t be afraid to be single.

It’s fun to be single, try it. You can go out whenever and wherever you want. You are free. You can date whomever you want and you get to go out for free! Do not get a boyfriend just for the sake of having one. Do not settle.

17. Be a good girl.

Be a good girl to attract a good guy. Enter the relationship with sincere intentions. Take the guy and the relationship seriously with the plan of spending the rest of your life with that person (of course, this is after you had your bit of fun in your younger years). If you compare your flings from your real relationships, you will know that the latter makes you happier and more fulfilled.

18. Love without limits.

Whether you loved and gave everything or loved but held out for some things, if the relationship ends, you still get hurt. But if you gave your everything, you were happy and you could say that it was worth it. If you didn’t give your all, you get hurt for nothing.

19. You will get over him.

Love is over-stated. Love eventually ends and you are free to love another.

20. Be the one.

Act like you are the one. Don’t be a nagger. Don’t hinder his gimmicks. Don’t give in to him too easily. Make him treat you as important. Don’t be easy. Don’t be like every other girl he had in his life.

ay ay ay pag-ibig

posted on my wordpress dated november 12, 2007

“Sometimes LOVE is so unfair, the more you sacrifice, the more you hurt and you feel you’ve given your BEST, it’s still not enough till such time you had no choice but to GIVE UP…”


I got this from my friend’s inbox…really fits on her coz that’s what she is feeling right now. I’ve known HER just for a month now but we have shared a lot of stories – on life, at work, with friends and relationships…awts puso ko usaping pag-ibig itetch…


Lahat tayo nag-aasam mkilala at maksama ang kabiyak ng ating tsinelas n mkksama for life. Pero hindi lahat ay swerte n matunton agad-agad ang mga mttwag n PARTNER. Maaaring ngaun, bukas o hindi natin alam nasa paligid lng pala natin. I know SHE fell in love with the guy but from the very start she knows it shouldn’t be. The guy is set to get married – awts*. She tried not to fall. But the more she tries, the more she gets close with the guy.


Let’s face it, let’s admit, tayong babae kahit anung iwas natin, kahit anung paliwanag natin s utak ng PUSO natin kung anu ang MALI, sadyang matigas ang ulo ng Puso natin. Ika nga kung anung mali un ung mas nae-enjoy natin gawin. Pero at the end of the day, mre-realize natin awts ang sakit pala


Matagal ko SIYA nd nkakwentuhan, pgbalik ko from a short vacation (daw) sabi nya SHE gave up on him and right now, she is trying to move on. She realize, finally that wala patu2nguhan if she would continue on that thing.


Girl, I know, you’ll come across to read this blog later. Be strong. Someday, somehow the RIGHT GUY for you will come – SOON.

june 27, 2002

taong 2002 nang maging mg-nobyo at mg-nobya…

ala sa hinagap na tatagal ang sinimulang relasyon…

marami ang nagulat at nagtaka…

marami ang humusga,

sapagkat CE Student c vhonn

at CE Student Assistant nman c jheng…

kapwa laging bigo sa tinatawag n pag-ibig

kapwa naghahanap ng matagalang relasyon

pinagtagpo, itinadhana ng panahon…

warning signs for men...

Warning signs for MEN when SHE needs HIS love the most:

SHE FEELS SHE MAY SAY

overwhelmed "there is so much to do"

insecure "i need more"

resentful "i do everything"

worried "but what about..."

confused "i don't understand why..."

exhausted "i can't do anything more"

hopeless "i don't know what to do"

passive "i don't care, do what you want"

demanding "you should..."

withholding "no, i don't want to..."

mistrustful "what do you mean by that?"

controlling "well, did you...?"

disapproving "how could you forget...?"

sigh...

there are times i want to escape...
forget everything...
and live the life i've been wanting to have...

best of friends...

"A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out."





"You're...
My Friend,
my companion,
through good times and bad
my friend, my buddy,
through happy and sad,
beside me you stand,
beside me you walk,
you're there to listen,
you're there to talk,
with happiness, with smiles,
with pain and tears,
I know you'll be there,
throughout the years!"

cross stitching

whenever i am depressed and feeling alone i just turned to my cross stitch...

my marrying age is 24

[/] I know how to make a pot of coffee.
[/] I keep track of dates using a calendar.
[ ] I own more than one credit card.
[ ] I know how to change the oil in my dads car.
[/] I do my own laundry.
[ ] I vote every election.
[/] I can cook for myself.
[ ] I think politics are exciting.
[ ] I balance my checkbook.
[ ] My parents have better things to say than my friends.

total: 4

[ ] I show up for school/college/work every day early.
[/] I always carry a pen in my pocket/purse
[ ] I've never gotten a detention
[/] I have never smoked a cigarette.
[ ] I have never gotten completely trashed.
[ ] I have forgotten my own birthday at least once.
[/] I like to take walks by myself.
[/] I've watched talk shows.
[/] I know what 'credibility' means without looking it up.
[ ] I drink coffee at least once a week.

total: 5

[/] I know how to do the dishes
[/] I can count to 10 in another language.
[/] When I say I'm going to do something I do it
[ ] My parents trust me.
[ ] I can mow the lawn.
[ ] I can make adults laugh without being stupid
[/] I remember to water the plants.
[/] I study when I have to.
[/] I pay attention at school/college.
[ ] I remember to feed my pets.

total: 6

[/] I can spell 'experience' without looking it up
[/] I work out on a regular basis.
[/] I clean up my own mess.
[ ] The people at Gloria Jeans know me by name.
[ ] my favorite kind of food is take out.
[ ] I have gained weight since middle/high school.
[ ] The first thing I do when I wake up is get caffeine.
[ ] I cant go out of the store without getting something I don't need.
[/] I understand political jokes the first time they are said.
[/] I can type quickly.

total: 5

[/] I have realized that the weather forecast changes every hour.
[ ] My only friends are from my place of employment.
[ ] I have been to a tupperware party
[ ] I have realized that no one will take you seriously unless you are over the age 25 and have a job.
[ ] I have more bills than I can pay.
[/] Most of my friends are older than I am.
[/] I can say no to staying out all night.
[/] I use the internet every day.
[ ] My wardrobe hasn't changed in a while.
[ ] I can read a book and actually finish it.

total: 4

TOTAL SCORE: 24

tattoed on my mind

Maybe you’ll soon forget about all
Or maybe you’ll miss it like I do
One thing’s for sure, I’m all knocked out
I spend too much time thinking of you

[chorus]
And I can’t get you out of my dreams
Now I know that you’re the dangerous kind
And your face is tattooed on my mind
Coz I can’t get you out of my dreams

I don’t wanna write
I don’t wanna call
I would not know what to say
It should be you
That’s how I want it to be
Tel me you feel the same way

[repeat chorus]

[adlib]

Oh yesterday I was feeling safe
All I do today is try to be brave
And no melody can seem to soothe my mind
Now I curse you for being so sweet and so kind

[repeat chorus]

Yes I know you’re tattooed
On my mind you’re tattooed

at last...

" i will praise you, for you have answered me, and have become my salvation." Psalm 118:21

Reminders:

- God's word is true.

- God can part the sea.

- God can heal the incurable.

- God can provide water from a rock and manna fron the heavens.

- God can conquer your enemies.

- God can still deliver from the fiery furnace and the lion's den.

Persevere in what He has asked you to do today because your rewards will be greater than you can think or imagine.


PERSEVERANCE IS

THE ROPE THAT

TIES THE SOUL TO

THE DOORPOST

OF HEAVEN. (Frances J. Roberts)

men are like rubber bands

Men are like RUBBER BANDS. When they pull away, they can stretch only so far before they come springing back. A Rubber Band is the perfect methapor to understand the male intimacy cyle. This cycle involves getting close, pulling away, and then getting close again.

Most women are surprised to realize that even when a man loves a woman, periodically he needs to pull away before he can get closer. Men instinctively feel this urge to pull away. It is not a decision or choice. It just happens. It is neither his fault nor her fault. It is a natural cycle.

Women misinterpret a man's pulling away because generally a woman pulls away for different reasons. She pulls back when she has been hurt and is afraid of being hurt again, or when he has done something wrong and disappointed her.

Certainly a man may pull away fro the same reasons, but he will also pull away even if she has done nothing wrong. He may love and trust her, and then suddely he begins to pull away. Like a stretched rubber band, he will distance himself and then come back all on his own.

A man pulls away to fulfill his need for independence or autonomy. When he has fully stretched away, then instantly he will come springing again. Automatically he will be more motivated to give his love and receive the love he needs. When a man springs back, he picks up the relationship at whatever degree of intimacy it was when he stretched away. He doesn't feel any need for a period of getting reacquainted again.

- John Gray, Ph. D.

a funny divorce letter

Dear Wife:

I'm writing you this letter to tell you that I'm leaving you forever. I've been a good man to you for seven years and I have nothing to show for it.

These last two weeks have been hell. Your boss called to tell me that you quit your job today and that was the last straw.

Last week, you came home and didn't even notice that I had a new haircut, had cooked your favorite meal and even wore a brand new pair of silk boxers. You ate in two minutes, and went straight to sleep after watching all of your soaps. You don't tell me you love me anymore; you don't want sex or anything that connects us as husband and wife.

Either you're cheating on me or you don't love me anymore; whatever the case, I'm gone.

Your EX-Husband


P.S. Don't try to find me. Your SISTER and I are moving awa y
to West Virginia together! Have a great life!




Dear Ex-Husband -

Nothing has made my day more than receiving your letter. It's
true that you and I have been married for seven years, although a good man is a far cry from what you've been.

I watch my soaps so much because they drown out your constant whining and griping. Too bad that doesn't work.

I DID notice when you got a hair cut last week, but the first thing that came to mind was 'You look just like a girl!' Since my mother raised me not to say anything if you can't say something nice, I didn't comment.

And when you cooked my favorite meal, you must have gotten me confused with MY SISTER, because I stopped eating pork seven years ago.

About those new silk boxers: I turned away from you because the
$49.99 price tag was still on them, and I prayed that it was a
coincidence that my sister had just borrowed fifty dollars from me
that morning.

A fter all of this, I still loved you and felt that we could work it out. So when I hit the lotto for ten million dollars, I quit my job and bought us two tickets to Jamaica. But when I got home you were gone. Everything happens for a reason, I guess.

I hope you have the fulfilling life you always wanted. My lawyer said that the letter you wrote ensures you won't get a dime from me. So take care.


Signed,

Your Ex-Wife, Rich As Hell and Free

sigh...

" if you look inside a girl's (h - e - a - r - t)

You would see how much she really cries

You'll find secrets hidden, bestfriends and lies.

But what you'll see the most is how *hard* it really is to stay when nothing is ever right and everything is always wrong."

the problem with HE as thought by SHE

got this from ate cristy's posted bulletin in friendster...just wanna share in here also...see for yourself

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If u TREAT him nicely, he says u are IN LOVE with him;
If u Don't, he says u are PROUD.


If u DRESS Nicely, he says u are trying to LURE him;
If u Don't, he says u are from VILLAGE.


If u ARGUE with him, he says u are STUBBORN ;
If u keep QUIET, he says u have no BRAINS .


If u are SMARTER than him, he'll lose FACE;
If he's Smarter than u, he is GREAT.


If u don't Love him, he tries to POSSESS u;
If u Love him! , he will try to LEAVE u.(very true huh?)


If u don't MAKE LOVE with him., he says u DON'T LOVE him;
If u DO!! He says u are CHEAP.


If u tell him your PROBLEM, he says u are TROUBLESOME;
If u DON'T, he says that u don't TRUST him.


If u SCOLD him, u are like a NANNY to him;
If he SCOLDS u, it is because he CARES for u.


If u BREAK your PROMISE, u Cannot beTRUSTED;
If he BREAKS his, he is FORCED to do so.


If u SMOKE, u are BAD girl;
If he SMOKES, he is GENTLEMAN.


If u do WELL in your exams, he says it's LUCK;
If he does WELL, it's BRAIN.


If u HURT him, u are CRUEL;
If he HURTS u, u are too SENSITIVE!!


"uuuhhmmm i know a guy who is completely like HE "

parang kau pero hindi...

'got this from someone's blog in multiply...

She is a 24-year old copywriter. He is an architect. They met and became lovers in college. They broke up last year but remained to be "friends." They send sweet text messages and he calls her often to make sure she's okay. They still date. They still have sex. They don't see anyone else. It is obvious that they still love each other but when asked about their situation, she doesn't know the real score. Even her friends are in the dark. "Parang sila, pero hindi."

She works in a telecom. He is reviewing for the board. They are in the same barkada. They talk on the phone till 4 am. He gives her chocolates, flowers and CDs even when there is no occasion. Their friends are suspecting something. Bakit sila nagsosolo kapag may overnight inuman? Why does he hold her close on the dance floor? Bakit sila magkaholding hands lagi? Sila kaya? "He hasn't admitted anything," she rants. "But I let him hug and kiss me. Parang kami, pero hindi."

They work together in an ad agency. After office, they would watch movie, have dinner and stroll at Glorietta. She gave him Harry Potter books for his birthday in exchange for posing as her boyfriend to make an ex jealous. They made out during the company outing in Subic and never talked about it. He said "I love you" once but she wasn't sure if she heard him correctly because they were both drunk then. But one thing she is sure of is her feelings for him. She likes him. And she's assuming that with what he's doing to her and with her, he likes her, too. There's just one hitch: he has a girlfriend!

She is a 28-year-old virgin. He's a 35-year-old bachelor. Both mountaineers, they became close during their climbs. After a few dates in posh restaurants, he brings her to his condo where they would make out. They have been doing this for months. She wants to believe that "sila na" but then she's not really sure about it. "We don't talk about it but it doesn't really matter," she'd tell her friends. "What's important is I am enjoying this -- whatever it is."

She's a teacher and he's an engineer. they've known each other since they were young then got reacquainted after a decade. they go out and make out. endless text messages and calls until 4 am. he picks her up from work. Her friends are asking what's going on. she can't say "yes" why? meron syang girlfriend. pero parang kami, PERO hindi.

The "parang kayo, pero hindi" stage. Others call it MU or mutual understanding. Pseudo-relationships. Pseudo-boyfriends. Flings. Almost like a relationship, but not quite. It is a phase where the persons involved are more than friends, but not quite lovers.Puwedeng may verbal agreement, puwedeng wala. One or both of you may have admitted your feelings, possible ding hindi. You just let your gestures do the talking for you. Walang pormal na ligawan na nangyari. Hindi kayo mag-dyowa. Pero sa kilos niyo, sa mga sinasabi niyo, parang kayo, pero hindi.

This kind of "relationship" can happen at different stages for different reasons. It can happen after a break-up. You still love each other, and you want to be with each other but you broke up for a reason. And for reasons hat you alone know, ayaw niyo na muna magkabalikan.It can also happen before a relationship, iyong pareho kayong nakikiramdam. Possible din na ayaw niyo munang mag-seryoso kaya kunwa-kunwarian lang muna. Testing lang.

Puwede ring hindi puwedeng maging kayo kasi isa sa inyo --usually the guy --may ka-relasyon na. Kaya habang hindi pa siya nakikipag-break doon sa girl (sabi niya makikipag-break siya soon pero di naman niya ginagawa), wala muna kayong relasyon para nga naman hindi siya nangagaliwa kasi "hindi naman kayo."

This pseudo-relationship stage, for a time, can be fun. Lalo na kung naghahanap ka lang naman ng "kalaro." Pero huwag ka lang mag-e-expect na may patutunguhan kayo kasi wala talagang kasiguraduhan. So bakit ang daming nagse-settle sa ganitong set up ganoong hindi naman sigurado kung may patutunguhan? Iba't ibang dahilan. Puwedeng for fun lang. Puwedeng "buti na iyan kesa w ala" or puwede na iyang "pantawid-gutom." Meaning, habang wala pa iyong the real thing, doon muna sa kunwa-kunwarian.


For those who are not in a serious relationship, they would think that pseudo-relationship is better than no relationship at all. It would be fun, if all you are after for is that "kilig" feeling.

Aminado naman ako na once upon a time, may mga pseudo-relationships din ako. No commitments involved. For the simplest reason that they couldn't commit, because they were either committed to someone else, or that they weren't ready to commit.

My rationalization, "okay na iyun, kesa wala."


Ang habol ko lang naman, iyong kilig feeling. Iyong merong nagtatanong kung kumusta araw ko. Iyong merong ka-cuddle sa beach outing. Iyong kapag tumunog ang cellphone, mapapangiti na ako dahil alam kong galing sa kanyang message. Iyong merong laging kasama. Habang wala pa ang the real thing, puwede na itong pagtiyagaan.


But then I learned that although it was only a pseudo-relationship, the emotions were real. And usually, in this kind of set up, ang babae lagi ang lugi.

Una, you can't ask him to commit. Since it's not really a relationship, you can't demand commitment from your partner. Ano ba kayo? May K ka nga ba magpasundo ng hatinggabi? You will always be uncertain about your role in his life. You can't expect him to be always there with you. And if you feel jealous of the other girls, you just have to keep it to yourself. Ano ka ba niya para magselos?


Pangalawa, what if you fall deeply in love with him? You can't be sure if he feels the same way. Baka nag-a-assume ka lang na mahal ka rin niya. Even if you are dying to tell him you love him, you can't. Because you're not sure if he'll like it. Baka mapahiya ka lang. This stage will always make you wonder where you are in the relationship. Or if there is a relationship at all.

Pangatlo, what if you become attached too much? What if you have invested all your emotions and this man hasn't? What if you remain faithful to him, not entertaining other guys, only to find out that he is seeing other girls?

Isa pang downside ng pseudo-relationships, it is fleeting. When a disagreement sets in, or when one of you gets cold, then that would be the end of it. Unlike in a serious relationship, hindi mo alam kung saan ka lulugar sa isang pseudo-relationship. Wala kang pinanghahawakan. Kasi sa pseudo-relationship, there is no "us." Meron lang "you and me," hindi "us."


Buti sana kung pseudo-pain din lang ang mararanasan mo. Kaso, hindi eh. Real pain. And usually, kahit tapos na ang pseudo-relationship, hindi mo maiwasan umasang one day, may karugtong pa rin iyun. And you will be miserable, hoping to bring back what you used to have, only to find out eventually that the guy is in another pseudo-relationship with somebody else.


Ang hirap, ano? You agreed to this kind of set up for fun and then you'd end up hurting yourself in the process.

Pero puwede naman maiwasan ang pain eh. Puwede naman na hindi mo muna isipin ang future and just enjoy the feeling, without thinking of the consequences.


But if you are certain that you are going to hurt yourself in the process, kailangan mo mamili. You can be happy and live the moment without worrying what would happen next. Or you can stop settling with pseudo-relationships and wait for the real thing.

When I was younger and in a pseudo-relationship with an unavailable guy, a friend told me, "Sige, kung ayaw mong magpapigil, bahala ka. Magpakasaya ka. Pero huwag kang iiyak-iyak pagkatapos, dahil tatadyakan kita."

Ang bottom line lang naman, kung magpapasaya sa iyo, gawin mo. Ihanda mo lang ang sarili mo sa consequence. Dahil ang "parang kayo pero hindi" stage ay bihirang nagiging totoo. Usually, hanggang doon lang siya ... almost, but not quite.

Why live in PINAS?

'got this from my friend engr. mitch encabo bagyen..just wanna share with you guys...read on!


The only place on earth where......

Every street has a basketball court.
Even doctors, lawyers and engineers are unemployed.
Doctors study to become nurses for employment abroad.
Students pay more money than they will earn afterwards.

School is considered the second home and the mall considered the third.
Call-center employees earn more money than teachers and nurses.
Everyone has his personal ghost story and superstition.

Mountains like Makiling and Banahaw are considered holy places.
Everything can be forged. All kinds of animals are edible.
Starbucks coffee is more expensive than gas.
Driving 4 kms can take as much as four hours.
Flyovers bring you from the freeway to the side streets.
Crossing the street involves running for your dear life.
The personal computer is mainly used for games and Friendster.
Where colonial mentality is dishonestly denied!
Where 4 a.m. is not even considered bedtime yet.
People can pay to defy the law.
Everything and everyone is spoofed.
Where even the poverty-stricken get to wear Ralph Lauren and Tommy
Hilfiger (peke)!
The honking of car horns is a way of life.
Being called a bum is never offensive.
Floodwaters take up more than 90 percent of the streets during the rainy season.


Where everyone has a relative abroad who keeps them alive.
Where wearing your national colors make you baduy.
Where even the poverty-stricken have the latest cell phones.
(GSM-galing sa magnanakaw)
Where insurance does not work.
Where water can only be classified as tap and dirty - clean water is
for sale (35 pesos per gallon).
Where the government makes the people pray for miracles. (Amen to that!)
Where University of the Philippines is where all the weird people go.
Ateneo is where all the nerds go.
La Salle is where all the Chinese go.
College of Saint Benilde is where all the stupid Chinese go, and University of Asia and the Pacific is where all the irrelevantly rich people go.
Fast food is a diet meal.
Traffic signs are merely suggestions, not regulations.

Where being mugged is normal. It happens to everyone. Rodents are normal house pets.
The definition of traffic is the 'non-movement' of vehicles.
Where the fighter planes of the 1940s are used for military engagements, and the new fighter planes are displayed in museums.
Where cigarettes and alcohol are a necessity, and where the lottery is a commodity.

Where soap operas tell the realities of life and where the news
provides the drama. Where actors make the rules and where politicians provide the entertainment.
People can get away with stealing trillions of pesos, but not a thousand.
Where being an hour late is still considered punctual.
(Grabe talaga 'to!) Where the squatters have more to complain (even if
they do not pay their taxes) ---- than those employed and have their
tax automatically deducted from their salaries....and where everyone wants
to leave the country!

According to Manila businessman, Tonyboy Ongsiako, there is so much wit
in the Philippines because '. . . we are a country where a good sense of humor is needed to survive. We have a 24-hour comedy show here called the government and a huge reserve of comedians made up mostly of politicians and bad actors.

Now I ask you where else in the world would one want to live?

ex-boyfriends,nasan n kya sila?

mg-uumaga n naman at eto gising p rin ako...

kchat ko ung ex-boyfrend #3 ko kanina...after a long time, 5years to be exact ngaun lng uli ngkausap ng nd naiilang. cguro dahil pareho n kame me knya2 buhay at pareho n kami me knya2 partner...

nmiss ko cya s totoo lng pero nd bilang boyfrend.nmiss ko cya bilang close frend ko...s totoo lng din la nman happy memories ung pgging "in a relationship" nmin nuon kc ang totoo mas click kami as close friend lang,kasa-kasama ko s mga kalokohan at cya ngturo skin ng mga un hehehe...ewan ko b bkit nhaluan ng cnsbing relasyon s puso ang status nmin nuon...

after ng break up issue...la n ngkhiwalay n ng tuluyan ang samahan nmin...ngkaron ako ng boyfrend #4 - c von n hanggang ngaun nasa tabi ko p rin at mas lumalalim ang pgmamahalan at patuloy n bumibilang ng taon ng masayang pagsasama at c ex-boyfrend #3 nman me girlfrend n rin at pareho kami ngaun n nktakda ng ikasal s aming mga pakner n ntagpuan...

nkktuwa kc pareho kaming nkhanap ng mas mkkpgpligaya sa aming mga puso...pareho kami ngaun nd2 s bansang disyerto kasama ang mga mahal ng puso nmin...

nung nakaraan linggo, ngkita p kami s dubai, kwentuhan at medyo me mga payong bngay c pareng ex-boyfrend skin spgkat minsan tlga ako ay sobrang maldita...

kuya at manong n nga ang twg ko s knya hehehe kasi mas mtanda tlga cya s kin...

bgla ko tuloy naalala ang aking mga ex-boyfrends..ai ang kapal para nman akong mdami nung tntwg n X...

x-boyfrend #1 - c M&M'S - civil engineer, high school lang ako nuon, s pgkkatanda ko 7years ang tanda nya skin.Nd nman ngtagal spgkat kung mklingkis feeling ko mbu2ntis ako ng ala s oras..huli ko balita s knya npngasawa nya ung architec s company nila,s palagay ko din me anak n un...

x-boyfrend #2 - c allong - first boyfrend ng bestfrend ko, kbarkada at kbbaryo ko, engineer din, ECE...ito ung tntwag n relasyong me halong katangahan - may buntis ng girl nung maging kami,nd ko lng mtantya kung ilang buwan n un nuon...alam ko un kc cnb nya pero GO p rin ako, nging boyfrend ko cya pero nd rin ngtagal..nd ko pala kya..mhirap...s ngaun nkkchat ko cya s YM, on the way n ung png-2 baby nya with the same girl nuon

x-boyfrend #3 - c daqs - kabarkada ko s adamson,CE student,mabait at no dull moments pg cya ksama..gaya nga ng nsb ko knna,ewan ko b bkit kami ngpdala at npunta kami s status n "in a relationship" pero dahil s cguro we better of to be frends nd rin ng-work...ngaun Civil Engineer n cya and about to get married next month...

pansinin nyo lahat cla mga engineers hehehe am i destined to be with an engineer?uuhhmm...

ang nkktuwa d2 kahit mga ex ko cla mga kaibigan ko p rin cla at lahat kami masasaya...me dahilan bkit nd ng-work ang mga relasyon n mga un...

kung cla me mga knya2 na pakner s puso ako din meron:

boyfrend #4 - c von, civil engineer,cya ung naging sandalan ko nung mgbreak kami n daqs,ngtyaga n m-heal ung broken heart ko...super bait,super maalalahanin at super kulit, maabilidad at me sense of responsibility...s loob ng 5years n mgkasama kami halos lahat n ata ng mabuting ugali nsa knya,ala ako maipintas at mahal n mahal ko cya...ngaun mssbi ko gus2 ko cyang mkasama ng habang buhay...

issue: name game

1. Name one person who always text you.
* my parents *wink*

2. Do you think some people are born
stupid?
* i think so

3. Name one negative thing about you?
* over sensitive sometimes

4. Status?
* in a relationship

5. What were you doing 30 minutes ago?
* chatting with daq's through YM

6. Sport you wanted to learn?
* volleyball..

7. Ever tried gymnastics?
* nope, but it was my subject in PE wayback in college

8. What was the last thing you bought?
* groceries

9. Do you talk a lot?
* yeah

10.Do you believe that love is blind?
* proven and tested

11. Where is your brother?
* he's in the philippines, probably sleepin'by now

12.How was your day yesterday?
* it was fine

13. What is the last ice cream flavor
you had?
* cookies and cream (selecta)

15.People describe you as....
* snob yet sweet

16.Contented in life?
* contented and fulfilled

17.What was the last thing you bought?
* groceries, i already answered this a while ago

18.Are you happy with the love of your
life?
* very much happy

19.Do you skip meals?
* sometimes

20.Do you consider yourself smart?
* sometimes

21.What color is your gate?
* we don't have a gate

22.Reason for living?
* family, vhonn and for myself

23.Are you typically a jolly person?
* yup

24.Name one enemy of yours:
* none so far

25.Name one close guy friend:
* c daquis

26.Who's the first person in your
phonebook?
* adamson university

27.What did the last text message you
received say?
* ads from 638 thomas cook exchange hehehe

28.Do you go to gym?
* no

29.Song playing at the moment:
* huwag k lng mwawala by ogie alcasid

30.How do you cope with stress?
* reads inspirational books or cross stitching

31.Ever broken someone's heart?
* i think so

32. What makes you happy?
* having vhonn in my life

33. What is the last thing you said
aloud?
* anu ba?

34. How much is your tuition fee?
* i didn't pay tuition fees - 'was a scholar

35. Is someone bitter to you?
* i don't think so

goodnight...sweet dreams!

good night sa aking mga readers!

maiiba itong blog ko ngaun kc mas mgsu2lat ako ngaun s wikang tagalog...me salitang banyaga man pero nd n tulad nung mga nauna ko blog page...nd nman ako fluent s salitang english, ngp2umilit lng kc parang masarap basahin...

writing takes away my boredome aside from reading...

c honey ko m sure,nghi2lik n ngaun hehehe goodnight honey mwuah*

thanks sa wireless

It's been 3 days now na nkksagap ako ng internet wireless d2 s room...thank you s mabait n me ari ng wireless n ito at til now nd p rin nya cne-secured hehehe

Haynaku, sb n honey nd n daw ako ngsawa s kk-browse ng internet...eh puro friendster at YM lng nman daw ang tnitignan ko at mgsulat ng kung anu2ng blog ko...

nk-ilang account n b ako ng blog?friendster, multiply, dashboard/blogger.com, 360degrees tapos balik uli ako d2 s blogger.com...

pg nd ko n kc feel ung page delete ko n o kya nman blocked n ung site...

d2 s UAE dami bna-blocked n website ng ETISALAT (communication company)...gaya ngaun ang MULTIPLY blocked for almost a month n...ewan ko b eh ala nman porn dun s website n un...

nkktuwa ang internet - since nd2 ako s malayong bansa, sabik ako s pamilya ko...c tatay, c nanay, c bunso at mga kpamilya (pinsan/tito/tita)...pero dahil s internet nkkpg-usap kami at minsan ngki2ta p kami s webcam...

pero minsan nd p rin maiwasan ang malungkot...kgaya ngaun iniisip ko sila, sana pede ako sumakay ng bus pauwi smin maykap lng cla saglit...

minsan naiisip ko nung college ako, ayaw n ayaw ko umuwi s bahay pg weekends, mas preferred ko p mgstay s dorm...every after 2weeks ako kung umuwi minsan once a month lng...

pero ngaun iba pala ung nd mo nki2ta ang pamilya mo lalo n pg feeling mo ala k kakampi or ung pagod k n s trabaho...d2 nman kc nd pede mgpahinga,nd pede ang absent2 kundi mgu2tom kaw...

pero salamat n rin nd2 ako at least me trabaho ako at nkkpgpdala monthly s parents.nd katulad nugn nasa pinas pko, s bank nga ako ngttrabaho liit nman ng sahod eh png-load nga s cellphone hinihingi ko p s tatay ko at ang pamasahe ko hinihingi ko s nanay ko at ang ang lunch packed pabaon p n tita bhe...nkkhiya...

pero nmi-miss ko cla...ako kya nmi2ss din nila hehehe

sigh...

" if you look inside a girl's (h - e - a - r - t)
You would see how much she really cries
You'll find secrets hidden, bestfriends and lies.
But what you'll see the most is how *hard* it really is to stay when nothing is ever right and everything is always wrong."

soulmate

"...Find ARMS that will HOLD you

at your WEAKEST,
EYES that will SEE you

at your UGLIEST,
a HEART that will love you

at your WORST..."

2007 nursing board exam result

the result of the "nursing board exam" is out!

The list has been broken down in alphabetical order to simplify the viewing of the results.

A, B, C, D, E, F, G, H, I, J, K, L, M, N, O, P, Q, R, S, T, U, V, W, X, Y, Z

The Professional Regulation Commission (PRC) announces that 31,275 out of 64,909passed the Nurse (First Timers, Repeaters, Removals and Voluntary Retakers of allsubjects) Licensure Examination given by the Board of Nursing in the cities of Manila,Baguio, Cagayan de Oro, Cebu, Davao, Iloilo, Legazpi, Lucena, Tacloban, Tuguegaraoand Zamboanga last June 2007. The results of examination with respect to two (2) examineeswere withheld pending final determination of their liabilities under the rules and regulationsgoverning licensure examinations. Two Hundred Forty-eight (248) out of the 336 Retakersas per C.A. Decision passed the examination.

"I am not a BS Nursing graduate neither a nursing student...so why am I posting this? Let's just say i feel so proud for my cousin - DAVIDSON B. TEH, he's very close to me since I stayed with them when i was in Manila plus the fact that he is really a GENIUS..."

"TWO THUMBS ako s u ahiah"

achie hannah, ahiah david RN, shobe martha

just a thought...

It's just a thought, this might be one of the reasons why HE liked her and suddenly gone without even saying GOODBYE...

If asked why I like her
I would say It’s the sway in her hips,
the thickness in her thighs.
It’s the lust in her lips, the love in her eyes.
It’s the softness of her skin,
the silk in her hair.
It’s the twist in her walk;
it’s the sweetness in her talk.
That is what I would say.

haynaku...

png-ilang blog account ko n b ito?

madami na as in MADAMI n...kalat kalat n nga...